Just what is a realationship?

Yea, that's 2days question, just what is a realationship? We talkin bout Men & Women here. Ya Moms & Pops, ya homies & they wives/significant others etc. We talkin 1 wife or many, between old & young, light & dark & for that matter, everything else in between. I aint talkin bout those tryin 2 change the REAL meanin of MARRIAGE but of those who wish 2 marry, produce offspring, grow old & hopefully LIVE 2gether til something do us part. Come on, y'all kno that in the United Snakkkes at least in OUR community, marriage is pretty much a dead thing. I once had a man who was about 50 years old, tell me that he felt bad 4 my generation(34-49) because virtually all of the woman alive have been bred on some whole OTHER SHIT & they bought it hook, line & sinker & this was about 10 YEARS AGO. Things like POLYGAMY come 2 mind. That shunning mentality NEVER fully took hold in the OLD WORLD & travellin really reveals who runs this shit! There is a SEPERATION of LABOR & there4, a seperation of POWER. Men are men & Women are women. Non Hue Mens have gone all over the world CORRUPTING Native Populations & thus the mess we in 2day. Everythang was affected including realationships!! Did U ever consider that the way we now look at realationships is thru the eyes of the very oppressor that ADAPTED us 2 his ill behaviors? Blak Women in the US can't even fathom having a conversation about multiple wives because it HURTS. This is the warnin shot 2 tell y'all, a new day is comin & when we get REAL, U gonna be 1 out of many or would U prefer 2 b wit some1 ignorant that don't kno nothin? U see ladies like cool guys & cool guys like LADIES. It takes a SPECIAL MAN 2 2 do this & it ain't jus about SEX, it's ANOTHER SYSTEM as ancient as anythang else we've done. The current financial situation is gonna change thangs & those not ready gonna wonder, "What happened?" What U scared of? Realationships in Afrika are WAY DIFFERENT from the US. Though IMO because I am a product of the West, I see realationships differently than my Ghanian family, I don't OVERstand how in this day & age, people don't adjust 2 how it is 2day. The women are trained 2 get ALL from a man & that poses problems 4 some1 like me as in the West, U are taught 2 get ya own & it used 2 b doable but 2day.....? Travellin shows 1 how it's done. Being a WORLD TRAVELLER is an education in & of itself. As an Afrikan Amerikkkan in Afrika, U can't tell 'em U ain't got lucre. U can't tell 'em that U have 2 leave Ghana because U ran out either. 2 many here think they problems disappear when they go over. It affexx the realationship. 2 many have these krazy ass notions & U hate 2 dash 'em but...somebody gotta tell 'em da TRUTH! A homegal that I heard of but never met, came 2 Ghana & confirmed 2 the homies what it is there. She spoke about a shootout in BKNY & an old lady got hit just outside of the building THEY lived in. I tell my peeps here about how violent the US is. They looked amazed when I tell 'em like, Whoa! What about y'all in the US, tryin 2 get by? U can have a realationship with Afrika. It sure aint perfect but it sho is HOME! Realationships here are hard but the way I look at it, it keeps the population down. EVERYBODY AINT SUPPOSED 2 REPRODUCE!! According 2 some PEOPLE(?), the population is already 2 much & so that must make THEM the minority....AHEM!!!!!! Afrika is actually UNDERpopulated. Anyhow, just some thoughts from a NY homie gone crazy in the MF land & stop thinkin like a Nigga, MF stands 4 MOTHER/FATHER!!!! Realationships, the one thing that we want until we have it, well at least in alot of cases. What b your realationship 2 U & ya spouse/sigother? One more question, what is the realationship between U & yaself? 2day & 2day only, I give U my ansa!! I say the realationship between U & yaself is the TRU MEETING between GOD & SELF!!! HOLLA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!